Do you know what a Quinceañera is? Well, if you don’t know, it is a tradition in Hispanic culture. It is an extraordinary celebration for teenage girls turning 15, marking their transition from childhood to adulthood followed by a massive party. Quinceañeras emphasize the importance of family and society in the life of a young woman. It is celebrated in Mexico, Latin America, and the Caribbean, as well as in Latin communities in the United States and elsewhere.
Planning the Quinceañera must begin 5–6 months before the party. The reason for early planning is that the soon-to-be 15 years old and her family must make the arrangements for the DJs, food, and cake for that day. Perhaps the most important task is getting the dress and deciding the color theme of the party in order to coordinate the dress and decorations.
Traditionally, before getting to the venue, there is a ceremony at the church called a “Misa”, but in English it is called a “Mass”. This is a way for the parents to thank God for the blessing of their daughter’s life and to seek God’s blessing and guidance as she enters adulthood. After that is over, the birthday girl and her court make a grand entrance. The court encircles the young lady and her father for the father and daughter dance moment. There will also be a dance portion that is a choreographed waltz-type dance that is prepared and is considered one of the main events of the evening. After all the dances are over, toasts are often offered before cutting a fancy cake.
The celebration begins with a huge party attended by the girl and her family and godparents. It is followed by a reception, or party, to which friends and relatives are invited. The reception features food, music, and dancing, with the girl accompanied by her court of damas (maid of honor) and chambelanes (chamberlains) they will be paired up with partners for the dance. After, there will be a presentation of a doll or a teddy bear to the girl, to show that the celebrant is giving up her childhood. Heeled shoes are placed on her feet to indicate that she is ready for womanhood. The birthday girl receives a crown that symbolize her superior morality. During the ceremony, sometimes girls will receive a bible or a rosary as a devotion and rededication to God.
There could be a mother and daughter dance too, but it is optional. Sometimes siblings danced too. There is a moment with the Godparents where the godmother puts some makeup on the quinceañera and the godfather puts on the necklace, earrings, or a ring that symbolizes the celebrants bond to her family, her community, and to God.
At the end, when all the special moments are over, there will be a time called the “Hora loca” where everyone is invited to the dance floor to have fun. Have you ever been to a quinceañera before?
